I hear people say words like “I don’t love him/her anymore, I no longer feel anything for him/her, I don’t think I can continue with this relationship” These statements are very true and correct and it does not mean a person who feels that way is heartless or without conscience.
The truth is, as much as love grows it also dies if it is not well nurtured and also maintained. Today, I will be highlighting a few points to illustrate what I mean.
- when your partner feels less valued, this can be as a result of lack of attention towards them
This is very dangerous in a relationship like I earlier stated “love can grow and it can die” it’s very correct and this point explains it. neglecting your partner either intentionally or due to work can be unhealthy for your relationship/ marriage. everyone needs care and attention and once they start feeling devalued they tend to fall in love with someone else most times.
2.when your partner perceive disrespect or feels disrespected from your character towards them.
Irrespective of the age and class, everyone deserves some level of respect and so, when you deprive your partner that respect and tend to always use abusive words on them and all that, they are likely going to fall out of love.
3. If you fail to appreciate your partner and they tend to feel it, then it’s a major problem
Humans are moved with nice words whether we accept it or not, and that means it is very important for us to know when and how to appreciate our partners and hail them for any effort they put in the relationships/marriage, if he/she buys you things no matter how small it might be please appreciate it, do not be stingy in using kind words on your partner.
4. Never agreeing on anything and always fighting is also a major reason people fall out of love.
This life is too short to fight over irrelevant issues and hold grudges, couples who never agree on a particular thing tends to fight always, so when do you have time to enjoy each other’s company and quality time, you eradicate friendship from your relationship/marriage by constant fighting and it becomes hard to manage
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